Well, I HAVE a list, but the site it's on is currently being re-designed and I can't really link to it right now

can you tell me what type of CD-Writer you want to know about? some are very easy to tell.
All LiteONs past the 16x writers can burn to 99:59 on a 99min CD-R (approx 875MB)
Newer plextors (24x writing and later) can go to 94:59
Newer Yamaha drives can burn to 99:59.
*MOST* CD-ROMs can read 99min CD-Rs, but I would imagine really old ones might have trouble. There is no list for CD-ROMS, it'd be WAY too big [:p]
as for what stereo's can read 90min-99min? Burn one and test it. It's the only sure way to know. My stereo is about 4 or 5 years old, and it reads them fine (but not CD-RWs...). And While I'm at it. No there is no such thing a CD-RW that is 90min or 99min long.
Hope that helps!