Okay, heres a big update first of all i figured out the exact thing to download, its at http://www.nvidia.com/object/winxp_169.21_whql.html
But there is a problem, as far as uninstalling my video driver before I install the thingy, all I found in the control panel was to uninstall all of my NVIDIA drivers at once, not just the video ones. So Heres a list of all my programs, I made a pic at this link... http://i181.photobucket.com/albums/x206/Killalot57/Untitled-1.jpg
do you see anything that I should remove?
It may not be necessary to uninstall anything, because i installed it anyway and everything works fine with a few exception....
Okay I can't play avi or mpeg files, I already had this problem i just hadn't mentioned it. Hope thats not a bad thing.... Anway, whenever i try to play an .avi, or .mpeg file it just says "Windows Media Player encountered a problem while playing the file. For additional assistance, click Web Help." Also in case it's important i notice it says aquiring codec, then codec aquired in the bottom left hand corner before the message pops up.